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(We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.)
We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries! - National Competition on Worries!
Let me introduce you to our today's guests.
- This is his first time on Hello. - Is it?
The star chef, Chef Choi Hyun Seok!
(Choi Hyun Seok, the showy chef)
Hwang Chan Sung!
(Hwang Chan Sung, the idol singer who transformed into an actor)
The soon-to-be married couple,
Hong Yun Hwa and Kim Min Gi!
(Hong Yun Hwa and Kim Min Gi, the sweet couple)
Na Young of Pristin!
(Na Young, the leader of Pristin)
Hyun Seok, I hear you have something to tell Yeong Ja.
- That's right. - Say anything. Just don't swear.
Whenever Yeong Ja eats food,
- she makes others crave it too. - She eats with so much gusto.
In the world of gourmet,
there are two kinds of life.
(There are two kinds of life in the world of gourmet.)
It depends on whether you've tried my food or not.
She hasn't tried my food.
- She hasn't been blessed. - I see.
- Yeong Ja... - Can you tell me about your food...
with which you'll make me happy to make me want to try it?
You enjoy all kinds of food, but I know you like meat the most.
I'll grill high quality meat with a lot of marbling...
over charcoal after spreading soybean paste on it.
When you bite into the meat, you can enjoy juices...
as the fat comes out of the meat, and it's so tasty.
She would understand what I mean once she tries it.
- Look at Yeong Ja. My gosh. - It's as if she's eating it.
- Yeong Ja. - Please write on the screen.
"Yeong Ja is eating."
(She might bite you if you touch her.)
(Yeong Ja, share it with me.)
You also collect action figures.
- He likes that kind of thing. - Exactly.
What are you hooked on?
I collect classical super alloy figures.
- They may not seem... - "Classical super alloy figures"?
any different from other toys.
But there are Gundam, Gunpla,
Macross, and so many other types.
I have many rare action figures...
- including "Starzinger". - "Starzinger"?
Action-figure addicts are actually like him.
They keep talking while the others don't understand a word.
They're just like him.
I can't relate to his story. I don't know how to react.
- I don't understand what he said. - I have no idea either.
(He really is a big fan.)
The two people who are deeply connected to Hello are here today.
- When Hello began airing, - That's right.
they broadcast the recording of the show...
through an online broadcast.
Also, Min Gi proposed to Yun Hwa...
- on Hello. - That's right.
(Min Gi's pure-hearted proposal 7 years ago)
(Let's maintain our sweet relationship,)
(and get married soon. I love you.)
(Congratulations.)
How long have you two been dating?
It's been about 3,038 days.
- 3,038 days? - It's...
It's been almost 10 years.
Are you two still dating out of stubbornness?
- What are you talking about? - That's not the case?
- That's ridiculous. - What is your secret...
to maintain your relationship for such a long time?
When we start fighting,
I take Yun Hwa to a crowded place.
(Why?)
So she can't yell at me.
- Good idea. - That's a good idea.
She can't raise her voice because of other people.
That's how we make up easily.
Don't you feel jealous when you see couples like them?
- I feel jealous, to be honest. - Right.
They look really happy together.
Right.
(I suddenly feel lonely.)
(I feel bad for him.)
- You're going to say... - Yes?
you don't have a girlfriend, right?
- What else would I say? - You don't have a girlfriend.
He often posts about social problems on social media.
What social issues are you interested in these days?
What I'm most interested in is when 2PM will make a comeback.
(Oh, poor Chan Sung.)
Three of your group members are serving in the military.
By the time all of us have finished serving in the military,
it will probably be 2021.
- It will be 2021? - At the end of 2021.
- In 2021? - I think it will be around then.
- You've waited long, Na Young. - Hello.
- Say hello representing your group. - Okay.
Hello, I'm Na Young, the ondol leader of Pristin.
- "Ondol"? - Yes.
- As in a warm-hearted leader? - Yes.
(I will lead my group like the heated floor in winter.)
I wish you were with a few of your group members.
You must've been embarrassed to do this by yourself.
- Shall we do it together? - Shall we?
Yun Hwa, strike the pose with her.
As her group name is Pristin, I'll name mine Protein.
"Protein"?
"Protein".
- You should eat a lot of protein. - That's right.
- 1, 2, 3. - 3.
- Hello. I'm Na Young... - I'm Yun Hwa...
- of Pristin. - of Protein.
(Please keep loving us.)
They're so cute.
Today, we have three stories as always.
- Show us the keywords please. - All right.
"The Men She Loves".
"Let Me Introduce My Daughter".
"My Sensitive Sister".
"Let Me Introduce My Daughter".
Hello. I'm a housewife in my 30s, and I have a daughter.
I'm going to tell you about my daughter, Do Yeon,
who is the most precious person in the world to me.
Do Yeon, who turned six this year,
was born with one eye closed.
I was worried at first,
but the doctor said it was common, so I was relieved.
However, a few days later, my daughter finally opened her eye,
and I was surprised.
"Your daughter has heterochromia iridum,"
"which means her eyes are two different colors."
"Unfortunately, there's almost no chance that the color of her eye..."
"will changed."
That's right. My daughter...
has one black eye and one blue eye.
In other words, she has odd eyes.
However, as she grows up, she draws more and more attention.
"Hey. Look at her eyes."
"Isn't something weird about her eyes?"
"My gosh. Look at that."
"Is she wearing contact lens?"
"I want to take a picture with her. Should I?"
- Gosh. - My goodness.
It's about time I get used to hearing people whispering like this.
But I only feel like it's getting tougher.
I once saw an elderly man saying,
"Excuse me. Look."
"Your daughters eyes look weird."
- Gosh. - "It's a disease, isn't it?"
"Is she blind?"
There are some people who throw salt on her wound without feeling guilty.
What makes me upset the most...
"Mom, why do people keep staring at me?"
"That's because you, my daughter,"
"have beautiful, sparkling eyes."
"I wish I had black eyes just like you."
She became teary while saying this.
So I've decided to muster up courage for my daughter.
I'd like to say to everyone with confidence,
"My daughter has one blue eye."
"Could you please just adore her?"
What do you think, Chan Sung?
Well... Actually, I think having odd eyes makes the person...
more charming.
I believe...
that it can be an advantage as it makes the person special.
- Not everyone is mean, - Right.
but some people speak thoughtlessly and harshly.
Think about the elderly man.
- Gosh, that elderly man. - When we had a similar story,
- we heard about a mean man too. - I remember him.
- I think he might be the same man, - Right.
and he travels around the country saying harsh things to other people.
- Let's find that man. - Let's do that.
We just have to stop him.
We should invite him on this show.
- Hyun Seok, you seem perfect. - Yes?
Is there anything you want to hide from others?
- By any chance? - I have a lot of hang-ups.
I also have some physical flaws.
Tell us just one thing.
Something you haven't told on any other shows.
Well, the thing is...
It's something I can discuss about with Dong Yeob privately.
It's not appropriate to talk about on a TV show.
(It's an inappropriate topic for a TV show.)
- My goodness. - I can tell what part is a problem.
We can't talk about it on a TV show.
Na Young, do you...
Is that all?
Yes.
- We can't talk about it. - Oh, no.
- I feel bad for him. - He'll find a solution.
Min Gi, do you have any hang-ups?
I used to be embarrassed about this,
but not anymore. I couldn't go swimming in elementary school.
- Why? - What?
I have a lot of moles gathering on my arm.
- Really? - There are about 40 moles.
You couldn't go swimming just because of the moles?
- Look. - My goodness.
When I was a little child...
You couldn't go swimming just because of the moles?
- My goodness. - It looks like a tattoo.
Kids teased me saying it looked like I got jjajangmyeon sauce on my arm.
When I was a kid,
- I was made fun of. - Is that your only hang-up?
- You don't feel embarrassed now. - That's right.
- Chan Sung, do you have a hang-up? - I had no idea.
- I have big nostrils. - I don't think...
- Everyone has his own hang-ups. - Do you get more air?
I can breathe a lot more easily than others.
- Film him from a low angle. - His nostrils...
They never film my nostrils so closely even in dramas.
(We still like you despite your big nostrils.)
Not long ago, my photo in a swim suit...
became the talk of the town.
- I liked that photo. - Many people said...
that I'm confident, but that's not true.
I'm just like anyone else.
I don't think I have a beautiful body.
I just keep fighting against social prejudice...
and try to increase my self-esteem.
- Despite all that, - You were so fabulous.
I revealed my body to get through this with confidence.
- It's my body after all. - That's great of you.
(I was confident as it's my body.)
I...
(We're rooting for you.)
- Your swim suit was pretty too. - Thanks.
Let's meet our guest.
Chan Sung, please escort Do Yeon's mom.
Please come out.
(Who is worried because of people say mean things to her daughter?)
(Gong Jin Young)
(Welcome.)
Hello.
(Shy)
- She looks so young. - Indeed.
Can you tell us about your daughter's condition?
- My daughter is six years old. - Yes.
Her eyes are different colors. She has heterochromia iridium.
Her left eye is black like normal Koreans,
and her right eye is blue.
People usually call it odd eyes.
- Usually, - Do Yeon has odd eyes.
- people in the family... - That's right.
- have eyes in different colors, - It's genetic.
and the child has eyes are in both colors.
Do people in your family have eyes in different colors from each other?
No.
- No one? - No one.
When she was born, she was closing her right eye,
- When she was born? - Yes. So I didn't know.
When I was breastfeeding her, she opened her right eye too.
I saw her right eye and realized it's different from her left eye.
During the test, I could hear my baby crying...
in the room while waiting outside.
You heard your precious baby crying.
It must've broken your heart.
It broke my heart.
But fortunately, the doctor said her eyesight was normal.
That's a relief.
And her other eye was also normal.
However, the color of her right eye...
will stay blue.
You can't do anything about it.
Were you shocked when you heard that?
Yes. It felt like my world had come crashing down.
I didn't know what to do.
Because she's different from others...
I understand.
I was afraid she might be hurt.
(She was worried her daughter might be hurt.)
As you wrote in your letter,
do people really say such mean things...
- In front of Do Yeon. - in front of Do Yeon?
Whenever we go to a crowded place,
I can feel that everyone looks at Do Yeon.
And I can hear people whispering behind us.
Some people asked me to let them take a picture with her.
(Yun Hwa is actually upset.)
Some people do that.
One day, I was waiting at a bus stop with Do Yeon.
An elderly man saw her and said,
"Look at her eyes. She has a disease, right?"
"Is she blind or something?"
As the elderly man said that,
my husband told him that it wasn't.
Then the elderly man said, "I'm sure it's a disease."
- He was stubborn. - He left after saying that.
He's the one who has a disease.
- Exactly. - Does your husband always...
explain to them your situation?
Something even worse happened too.
- What happened? - I was holding my daughter...
and walking down the street.
She was facing backwards.
Some people must have been curious...
whether she could see or not.
They moved fingers in front of her eyes.
(It's unacceptable.)
- What's wrong with them? - To see...
if her eyes would move. Even something like that happened.
Was it a man?
It was a man and a woman.
They must have been the old man's children.
He must have a lot of children.
How do you react to situations like that?
As I'm going through this for the first time,
my face gets red,
and my heart starts racing.
That's why I try not to go outside.
- As much as you can. - I avoid going out.
I only go to my parents' or parents-in-law's.
When there's a wedding or a gathering,
I leave Do Yeon at home and go alone,
or I send my husband instead.
(It must have been hard.)
When she was a baby, it was easier to hide it.
- How did you hide it? - I could...
have her face towards me...
or put a hat on her.
Or we took a taxi.
But as I was trying to hide her,
- she became such a shy kid. - She did?
Yes. She's better now.
- But back then... - She'd cry when she saw a stranger.
When we had guests at home,
she wouldn't come out of her room even though she was a baby.
In the letter, you wrote that she told you that...
she wished her eyes were the same color as yours, crying.
She said that to you?
(It breaks her heart even now.)
- Give me a second. - All right.
Of course.
It's her child. She'd rather suffer herself.
It must be so painful to watch her child suffer.
Let's see some pictures of Do Yeon.
Let's see how she looks.
How old was she? She looks so cute.
- She wasn't even a year old. - Right?
(She wasn't even a year old.)
- She was about 11 months old. - She looks adorable.
- When was this? - It must have been taken recently.
- Her eyes look like jewels. - Is it now? How old is she?
- She's 6. - She's 6.
- She looks adorable. - It looks like the ocean.
- She looks mischievous. - She looks so pretty.
She looks mischievous.
- She's adorable. - So when did she say that?
- Did she say that recently? - No. She was a baby.
- When she was about 3? - She was about 4.
"Mom, I wish my eyes were the same colors as yours."
(She is young, but she still gets hurt.)
Do Yeon is here today.
She's so pretty. Please welcome her.
Hi.
- Hi. - Hi.
(Do Yeon's eyes are mysterious and attractive.)
You're so pretty.
- You're so pretty. - Do Yeon.
Do Yeon, can you raise your hand?
- Like this. - Raise your hand.
Hold your microphone.
- Please introduce yourself. - Please introduce yourself.
- Hi. - She's so cute.
(Heart attack)
Please tell us a little about you. How old are you?
- I'm six. - How old are you?
(Dad, help me.)
I'm six.
- You're 6? - You're 6?
Yes.
Do you understand what your mom has been saying?
You don't have to ask your dad.
Just say as much as you can.
Chan Sung, please talk to her.
She doesn't seem to like me.
I...
She must be scared of me.
Am I like an older brother to her?
- You'd be an uncle. - You'd be an uncle.
Do as your conscience dictates.
You're greedy.
(You're greedy.)
I think you're very pretty.
Do you think you're pretty?
Yes.
She speaks so well.
Which part of your face do you like the most?
My eyes.
- Your eyes? - I didn't hear you.
What did you say?
My eyes.
That's right.
(Smiling)
(My eyes are pretty, right?)
She's smiling.
Do you still wish your eye was dark?
- No. - You're pretty the way you are.
You don't?
- That's great. - That's great.
(Do Yeon has become positive.)
(She's so pretty.)
Do Yeon seems to be confident. She doesn't seem to be bothered.
Isn't it great?
Yes. Before, when people asked her questions,
she'd panic.
But we've been telling her she's pretty,
so thinks she really is pretty.
Hold on.
- Why do you say that? - She is pretty.
- Look at Do Yeon. - She really is pretty.
She knows that she is pretty.
But I think she's starting to feel something.
Her friends asked her,
"Why is your eye color different?"
She answered, "Because I'm special."
And then she said, "Do you want to see my mosquito bite?"
- She changed the subject. - She changed the subject.
She must have felt something.
When I'm not there,
she sometimes sits quietly...
in the corner.
- It breaks my heart. - She's only six.
How did you feel when Do Yeon was born?
- It was such a shock. - Of course.
It was upsetting.
The doctor didn't let Do Yeon's mom come into the room...
when they were checking Do Yeon's eyes.
To check the nerves, her eyes had to be dilated.
She was only about 100 days old.
(She wasn't even a year old.)
They put eye drops in her eyes every hour, and we waited three hours.
They used tools that looked like hooks.
(They used tools that looked like hooks.)
Around her eyes.
- Like when you get laser surgery? - Yes.
Her eyes had to be kept open.
That's how they checked her eyes.
In the room, Do Yeon was crying.
Outside, Do Yeon's mom was crying.
(Both Do Yeon and her mom were crying.)
I was holding Do Yeon's legs down.
I kept saying, "I'm sorry."
Suddenly, the doctor grabbed me.
I was squeezing Do Yeon's legs too hard without realizing.
I felt so bad.
But luckily,
except the color, the nerves and vision...
- were normal. - That's great.
That was a ray of hope.
It's inevitable.
She said that things are different from when you're with them,
and when your wife and daughter are alone.
I had just changed jobs and Do Yeon had just started daycare.
My wife was under a lot of stress.
As you saw earlier,
my wife is about 167 to 168cm tall.
But she didn't weigh more than 42kg around that time.
(She was under too much stress.)
- Even though she's pretty tall? - Yes.
- You could see her ribs. - Gosh.
We believed it'd only be like this in Korea.
We thought it'd be no problem abroad.
That's what we think too.
We went to Cebu once.
There was a play area for kids at the resort.
One employee saw Do Yeon...
and radioed his colleagues.
8 to 9 employees came...
and stared at Do Yeon.
We realized that heterochromia is considered weird...
even in other countries.
We went there to refresh ourselves,
but we were forced to accept the reality.
- I see. - Yes.
(Sad)
Do people stare at you on the street?
- Do they? - We'll have Chan Sung talk to her.
Not Tae Gyun.
She said to her dad,
"Why is that man talking to me?"
- I'm sorry. - We're confusing her.
Do people stare at you...
- on the street? - Yes.
Because you're pretty?
- Because you're pretty. - That's right.
I think...
they stare at you because you're pretty too.
You could become a model when you grow up.
Your eyes are so pretty.
- What do you think? - That sounds good.
She only talks to Chan Sung.
- I'm jealous. - It's scary.
She changes completely.
Min Gi, try talking to her.
Do Yeon, do you want to talk to me?
(She looks away.)
(She doesn't want to talk to him either.)
Goodness.
How was it for you? Was it hard for you...
to accept the way people reacted to your daughter?
I think I unconsciously tried to...
hide my daughter from others.
People set pictures of their child as their profile picture, right?
- Right. - But without realizing it,
I only used pictures where you couldn't see Do Yeon's eyes.
One day, my mom scolded me.
"Are you ashamed of Do Yeon?"
"You're her dad."
That's when I decided to accept the reality...
and stop feeling ashamed.
That's great.
(I'll be there for you, Do Yeon.)
What made you want to...
be on this show and show Do Yeon to others?
In the year Do Yeon was born,
a girl named Cho Eun appeared on Hello.
Cho Eun. The girl with blue eyes.
- Cho Eun. - Both her eyes are blue.
After the show,
- she could make many friends... - That's right.
and become confident.
It gave me a lot of courage.
Two years ago, my husband sent a letter...
- to this show. - Two years ago?
Do Yeon was younger then. But back then,
- I wasn't really ready for it. - You weren't.
Because we might be met with...
negative reaction.
Why did you accept it now?
I saw Seo Hyun on the show recently.
- Seo Hyun. - Did you watch that?
I watch this show a lot.
When this gets out,
I thought it might help Do Yeon.
- So I mustered up my courage. - Of course.
We will surprise you.
- Cho Eun is here today. - Is Cho Eun here?
- Where is she? - How old is she now?
Let's bring in Cho Eun. Please come on out.
(Let's meet Cho Eun.)
She's coming out from the back.
My goodness. She grew so much.
Look how big she's gotten.
(What part of you is the prettiest?)
(My face.)
She says it's her face.
(She's neither a scary girl nor a monster.)
(She's not an animal.)
(She's just a normal girl.)
(Her mom wished people would look at her as an ordinary child.)
Look how big she is.
Look how big Cho Eun got.
She grew so much.
My goodness.
(She grew so much.)
She can sit next to Do Yeon.
You will see Do Yeon there. Say hello to her.
Say hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
Cho Eun got so big. Hello, Cho Eun.
Hello, Cho Eun.
Why are you crying when Cho Eun is here?
She's not crying because of you.
People might think there's something wrong.
- Is it tears of joy? - How have you been?
Do people still...
stare at you a lot?
Some people still stare at me.
- And it makes me feel bad. - It makes you feel bad.
But a lot of people compliment you too, don't they?
Yes.
What do you think about Do Yeon's eyes?
I think Do Yeon's eyes are pretty.
- Are they pretty? - Do you think they're pretty?
Look at her face.
How can you say she's pretty when you didn't look at her?
They are so cute.
- You're born with gems. - Cho Eun, tell her.
Tell Do Yeon that she's really pretty.
(She's shy.)
She's shy.
- You are pretty. - She's so cute.
Do Yeon, what do you think about Cho Eun's eyes?
- Aren't they pretty? - They are.
It's so nice to see you again, ma'am.
- She got much better. - She looks relaxed.
How has it been since the show got aired?
When she first entered elementary school,
things were quite similar to before at first.
Kids stared at her.
- But they didn't watch the show. - Right.
- Their parents... - They remembered her.
The parents remembered her and told their children...
that she's was on TV.
They made their children watch the show too.
So the kids started saying, "You're the one who was on TV."
- She's a big star. - That's the best.
"I heard you were on TV."
Now she has a lot of friends, and she's enjoying school life.
We will play it again...
when it's time for her to go to middle school...
- and high school. - We will get people prepared.
We will play it.
You are in similar situations.
Is there anything you want to tell Do Yeon's mom?
I used to only think about how hurt she was going to be.
But when time came, it was actually fine.
Do Yeon coped with it...
- better than I expected. - Right.
I think you don't have to worry about it.
- She doesn't have to worry. - Yes.
We became confident...
after we came to Hello.
Things got much better since then.
I hope you will win twice or three times...
and be on TV for a long time, and spread awareness.
Now you can't win more than once.
You haven't watched our show for a very long time.
- You are so bad. - I am sorry.
It's been a year.
We will talk to another person.
Cho Eun's family is not the only family we invited.
- Is Seo Hyun here? - This girl is suffering...
- from albinism. - Is Seo Hyun here too?
Please welcome her with an applause.
- Seo Hyun. - Seo Hyun.
Seo Hyun.
(Seo Hyun was born with albinism.)
We can feel the attention, but we pretend not to.
(I hope you will look at us without the prejudice.)
(She acts cute.)
(She got even cuter.)
She's cute.
She's so pretty. She's big now.
Look how much happier Seo Hyun's mom looks.
- Seo Hyun's dad got a big belly. - She's so cute.
- Can Seo Hyun talk now? - Yes.
- Say hello, Seo Hyun. - Hello.
- Say hello. - Hello.
- She won't say it. - She won't say it.
How have you been doing since when you were here?
Now everyone knows what's going on.
(Seo Hyun won't stop moving.)
- People pat her in the head. - She's very active.
And people say she's pretty.
You heard Do Yeon's story in the back.
How did you feel while listening to her story?
I shed tears in the back.
She was just like me when I first came here.
I lacked confidence like her.
I made Seo Hyun wear a hat to go to a mall,
and whenever we went to a restaurant, we hid in a corner.
She seriously lacked confidence then.
You watched Seo Hyun's episode, didn't you?
She made me really frustrated at the time.
(She was always daunted.)
(She tried to run away from the problem.)
Right now, we confidently tell everyone about her condition,
and we are confident everywhere we go.
- So she became confident too. - Right.
You have to be confident.
If you make her wear a hat,
the child knows it.
- So you should be more confident. - Right.
(The parent's mindset is the most important.)
How do you feel to see Cho Eun being so confident?
You're glad you came here, aren't you?
I became emotional because I realized...
Do Yeon will be just as confident as her...
- when she grows up. - Of course.
(She hope Do Yeon will be as confident as Cho Eun.)
If you want to say something to Do Yeon, you can say it.
- Do Yeon. - She's so pretty.
Whether you enter school or you become an adult,
you will be receiving the attention...
always until you die.
(She will always receive people's attention.)
It won't go away.
So I hope you will continue to think that you are pretty...
and grow up...
as a positive person.
I want to tell everyone this. Please refrain from...
whispering in the back or pointing fingers at her...
so that she can grow into a positive person.
I hope you will tell her that she is pretty.
My daughter has one blue eye.
Please cherish her.
(We all need to try hard...)
(not to treat people who are different from us, poorly.)
(If the world changes, their courage and happiness will double.)
(Then perhaps this world would be free of worries like this, right?)
Let's begin with Na Young. Is this a worry or not?
From the mother's perspective.
I hope everyone who watches this...
will treat her in a way that she will not get hurt.
It's a worry, and I think it's something we all should work on.
I hope we will all learn to accept the differences.
Old men like that...
- will talk to anyone like that. - Right.
This is not a worry for her.
Can you talk to that old man in Big Mama's voice?
If I meet this old man,
I will yell at him.
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I think she needs to constantly tell her daughter...
that she's pretty and precious.
I think it's a worry.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
5, 4, 3, 2 ,1.
Stop.
Sir, do you have a mic?
If there's something you want to tell Do Yeon, say it.
Her eye that has a different color is only a centimeter wide.
She's 110cm tall, and only a centimeter of her is different.
I hope the world she views with her eyes is warmer...
and more beautiful.
- All right. - Okay.
Let's see how many vote she got. Please show us.
"Let Me Introduce My Daughter".
Is it over 100?
(The last digit is 3.)
How many votes did she get?
Well done.
Thank you, sir.
"My Sensitive Sister".
Hello.
I am a high school senior girl who is about to bleed dry.
Is it because I am nervous about the college entrance exam?
No.
What makes me nervous is my sister...
who is three years older than me.
(She's nervous because of her sister.)
"Let's eat."
- "Are you crazy?" - Why?
"I'm going to eat cucumber."
- "Hey, Mom and Dad..." - Why?
"want to eat out."
"Are you crazy?"
"I'm going to eat cucumber."
(She's obsessed with cucumber.)
It's like a catch phrase.
About one and half year ago, she went on a diet.
She eats only cucumber...
- for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. - She only eats cucumber.
She succeeded to go from 95kg to 52kg.
She lost a total of 43kg.
What? She only ate cucumber.
(That's crazy.)
"How do I look? Does this look good on me?"
"Yes. You look pretty."
"What? Did you say I am pretty?"
"Are you making fun of me?"
"I know that I am fat."
My goodness.
It made her the most sensitive person in the world.
"What's this smell?"
"Did you eat ramyeon?"
"I told you not to eat it when I am around!"
"Get out! Right now!"
She is very sensitive.
I can't eat anything in her presence.
"Hey, shouldn't you lose some weight?"
"Look how fat you are. Stop eating!"
"Mom, are you still eating?"
"Stop eating! You'll get fat!"
She keeps nagging us to lose weight.
The entire family is suffering due to her obsession to lose weight.
I miss my sister...
who was fat but kind.
Please help me.
(Please stop my sister from being super sensitive.)
She's super sensitive.
Did you become sensitive, Yun Hwa?
- I became very... - Min Gi must know.
Right.
(He thinks of the right thing to say.)
He is very perplexed.
- Tell us. - She became a little sensitive.
- A little sensitive. - It's not too bad.
How much weight have you lost so far?
I lost about 25kg.
- What is your goal? - I want to lose 10kg more.
- You have to lose more? - Yes.
In the past, I tried to lose weight while only eating cucumber,
and I failed.
I felt so dizzy. So I just lied down...
and did nothing all day. My hands and feet became cold.
- I experienced that. - That would happen.
- I'm curious... - I didn't know...
cucumbers helped you lose weight.
- if she is in good health. - I ate cucumbers too.
But I ate it with other things.
- As a side dish. - You ate pickled cucumber.
- Cucumber soup. - Cucumber kimchi.
Cucumber is very good when you grill it alongside pork belly.
You eat a lettuce wrap with pork belly...
and then eat a cucumber stick with plenty of doenjang.
- Cucumber soup is good too. - Cucumber soup is the best.
(Cucumber soup is great too.)
Let's bring in the guest who is worried about her sister.
Please come on out.
(Who is the person with the most sensitive sister?)
(Kim Joo Sang)
Joo Sang.
Did your sister really lose 43kg in just a year and half?
My sister is 163cm tall.
She used to weigh 95kg.
- But right now, she weighs 52kg. - 52kg.
She eats half a cucumber to one cucumber every meal.
- She doesn't even eat one? - She did that for a year?
Yes. She's been doing that.
- Only cucumber? - She would eat a whole one.
- Does she peel it or not? - I don't know.
Does she peel it?
She goes to the gym every day and works out for an hour and half.
She works out for an hour and half too.
Where does she get the energy to work out?
Will she stop losing weight now? Has she reached her goal?
Her goal is 45kg.
(She's still got a long way to go.)
(Oh, my gosh.)
- So she wants to continue it. - She's 52kg right now,
and she wants to weigh 45kg. She has to lose 7kg more.
(Tell her I can't do it.)
When she was fat, she was kind and good.
After she lost weight, she became strange.
How is she sensitive?
I wasn't doing anything, and she shouted, "It's so annoying!"
Then she went into her room and slammed the door.
- You weren't doing anything. - I wasn't doing anything.
I think she must've thought of something she wanted to eat.
She suddenly thought of food. "It's so annoying!"
When I am eating something, she tells me that it smells...
and that I should go to another room.
She would yell at me.
(She's struggling because of her sensitive sister.)
Doesn't your mom sometimes cook cucumber at home?
When she makes cucumber soup,
she gets upset and ask if it's her cucumber.
"Isn't that my cucumber?"
It's her only food.
When you are on a diet, you get sensitive about food.
She gets upset that you might have used her cucumber.
But I think it was her cucumber.
Was it?
The hardest thing to do in this world is losing weight.
Until she reaches her goal weight,
can't you support her and understand her?
I can't stand her...
nagging me to go on a diet too.
- Does she nag a lot? - She says, "Lose weight."
"Why aren't you taking care of yourself?"
(She only says spiteful things.)
Let's meet her sister. Her sensitive sister. Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
(Who is her sensitive sister?)
- Hello. - Hello.
- Can you get up for a while? - Can you get up?
I am so proud of her.
(She's very slim.)
- Please turn around. - She's so slim.
My goodness.
Are you crouched because you feel weak?
It's because I lack confidence.
- Why aren't you confident? - Why are you not confident?
You have such a slim body.
We should crawl then.
Crawl?
I think you need to stop losing weight now.
But I don't think like that.
There are so many pretty girls who are slim.
- So I need to lose more weight. - A lot of people aren't slim.
Why do you only see the slim people?
I tend to only see them.
They catch my attention more.
Your sister says the diet has made you more sensitive.
I admit that I became sensitive.
But since we are family, I want her to understand me...
- with love. - You want her to understand you.
That's what everyone says on this show.
"Since we are family, she should understand."
By the way, why do you nag to her about what she eats?
- It's her choice. - I have something to say.
She eats fried chicken and pizza at night.
I get worried about my sister's health.
So I nag at her whenever she eats night snacks.
She used to eat a lot in the past.
I have been fat.
So I know how hard it is to go on a diet. It's painful.
I don't want her to get fat.
(I will take care of myself.)
You must be curious about how she looked before she lost weight.
This is who Joo Sang misses.
Let's see her old photo. Can we?
- Yes. - Okay.
Show us.
(My goodness.)
Why did you have to make such a face?
- I know. - Why did you do that?
- She completely changed. - How does it make you feel?
That's... My goodness.
She's shocked.
(Her dark past is revealed)
She is hugging a bag of cereal.
I used to love carbs.
- You just ate it on its own. - Did you...
eat it from the bag?
I's good.
It's good when you pour milk in the bag.
- You pour milk in the bag? - Pour milk in the bag?
You pour milk in the bag?
- Really? - A whole liter of milk?
- You open the bag and pour milk. - You pour milk into it.
You just shake it like this and drink it.
- Really? - It was good.
Can you tell us more about how you lost weight?
Some people must want to hear it.
(They are curious.)
(They are very curious too.)
(Come on and tell us.)
For breakfast, I eat one cucumber and vegetables.
For lunch, I eat one cucumber and side dishes.
I eat one cucumber for dinner.
I worked out hard too.
I did cardio for half an hour and weight training for 15 minutes.
I walked up and down 15 floors...
until I sweated.
When I felt too hungry, I drank a lot of...
- sparkling water. - Why drink sparkling water?
- Soda makes you fat. - It's just sparkling water.
- It feels refreshing. It's water. - It's water.
(I need to write it down.)
Is your health okay?
In the beginning, I used to only eat cucumber.
But now I am more flexible. When I crave cabbage, I eat cabbage.
When I crave for lettuce, I eat lettuce.
Do you not eat rice?
- I don't eat carbs. - You never eat carbs.
- No. - And no meat?
I eat meat.
Carbs make you fat.
She's mistaken.
You need the right amount of carbs for your body...
- to burn energy. - Right.
If you don't eat any carbs, you will suffer from nutrition imbalance.
- It's bad for health. - That can...
make you gain the weight back.
But I know that, but carbs make you fat.
- Are you... - Carbs are the main cause.
- She's very stubborn. - I have a question.
Have you never experienced...
your feet and hands getting cold or your eyelids fluttering?
You have to endure that.
You can't just neglect it. Your body is trying to signal you.
(How can you just endure that?)
Have you taken diet pills to lose weight?
My neighbors asked me that too.
- If I took diet pills. - I never took diet pills.
Your neighbors asked you that?
- You must be famous. - They were shocked to see me.
There are a lot of ways to lose weight in this world.
You have to choose the method that suits you.
And you need the strong will to repeat that the next day.
You need the strong will.
(I trust you.)
(You can do it too.)
Is there a reason why you decided to lose weight?
When I was fat, people talked down to me,
and I had a low self-esteem.
When I went to a store and looked at pretty clothes,
the shop clerk came to me and said they didn't have one for me.
She said she would appreciate it...
- I know that. - if I didn't come back.
- She told you not to come? - Yes.
She told me that because they didn't have anything for me.
Also, my colleague asked me this one time. "Can you work..."
"when you are that fat?" "Do you even have a dream?"
(Do you have a dream?)
I was very much looked down.
(She was hurt and looked down in the past.)
(Joo Sang is sad to hear it.)
After you lost weight, did people treat you differently?
And did your self-esteem become high?
Did many things change for you?
I can now wear what I want to wear.
I have more confidence now. I like that.
- You look more confident. - I look different.
I think her self-esteem has gotten lower.
- What? - Her self-esteem got lower?
She always looks in the mirror and says,
"I think I gained weight again. I should lose weight, right?"
"I look fat, don't I?" She asks me those things.
She's never dated a man.
(Has she been single all her life?)
- Is it true? - It's not true.
- She's been in an relationship. - Why do you keep saying that?
Her friends set up dates for her, but she says she's not ready.
She says she still has to lose a lot of weight.
Do you have a boyfriend then?
Of course. I used to have one, but I don't have one now.
- "Of course." - "Of course."
There was a twist.
Why aren't you dating anyone?
She says you've never dated anyone, but you deny it.
I am still traumatized about my past experience with men.
I can't forget about how men treated me.
When I have a boyfriend,
I think I am going to gain weight.
(She's unbelievable.)
But when you go outside,
a lot more men now ask you for your number. Right?
- She doesn't go outside. - I haven't experienced that.
How do you relieve your stress?
- I bottle everything up... - Do you cry?
- and stay at home. - That won't do.
You'll get sick like that.
- It must be hard for her family. - Her frustration piles up.
Not only the sister,
but the entire family is here.
Hello.
(The entire family is here.)
Your daughter is sensitive.
Do you think you look good on the screen?
No.
Are you also worried about your sister?
Yes. The three of us go shopping for groceries together.
Back in the days, we bought meat...
and Vienna sausages.
Now, she buys 7 to 8 cucumbers at a time...
even though they cost a dollar and 50 cents a piece.
There isn't much we can buy.
We used to eat noodles and boiled meat.
That's right.
Now, she only eats cucumber on top of the noodles.
(Now, she only eats cucumber on top of the noodles.)
I feel bad for her.
Aren't you impressed that she lost 43kg?
- I am not that impressed. - Why not?
I liked her better when she ate well.
(A sister who eats well)
She looks pretty.
Not really.
(My goodness.)
- Was she prettier when she was fat? - Yes.
No way.
She is the prettiest when she eats well.
(She is the prettiest when she eats well.)
(Women's hearts flutter.)
(What is he talking about?)
(Why are you glaring at me?)
When she was fat, we went to the buffet together...
and made a bet on who can eat more.
We went to popular restaurants.
That must have been fun.
Now, I would jokingly say,
"Do you want to eat fried chicken?"
She goes, "Why would I eat that?"
- She completely changed. - Yes.
I understand how he feels...
because I hope Yun Hwa would go easy on her diet.
I eat alone these days.
- You eat alone. - I eat and drink alone.
Yun Hwa doesn't eat with me because she is on a diet.
It was better when you ate with her, right?
- Yes. - That's right.
If you are on a diet, it gets hard when people say,
"You should eat something."
- "Why don't you eat this?" - It must be stressful.
I get that they are worried,
but it's stressful to turn them down continuously.
(That's right.)
Ma'am, what do you think about your oldest daughter's diet?
- I am proud of her. - Of course.
I have never had success,
but she had a good result.
Starting from the second grade,
she gained weight for 15 years.
I prayed every day that...
- she would lose weight. - Instead of growing tall,
she gained weight.
Since she lost too much weight now,
the topic of my prayer has changed.
Do you pray that she will gain weight?
I want her to eat well...
and live like a normal person.
You want her to eat well.
Doesn't she look pretty right now?
She is so focused on her diet...
that she can no longer enjoy...
her hobbies such as reading or playing the flute.
She doesn't have the energy for them.
I have never liked playing the flute.
I have never liked reading.
She is talking about the hobbies she forced upon me.
I continue to enjoy the hobbies I have.
- Really? - What are your hobbies?
I like reading comic books.
I like being on the phone in my bed.
I find happiness in small things.
Sir, what is your opinion?
My wife should be on a diet, not my eldest daughter.
(Every family member attacks with fact.)
Why did you say that so suddenly?
(I can't believe him.)
I am worried...
because her diet harms the family.
The atmosphere is frigid in the house.
I see.
When I come back from work,
my daughters fight...
once every two days.
My eldest daughter takes out her stress...
on her siblings and criticize them.
She criticizes them.
- She does that. - She criticizes them.
A family should have a meal together...
and be affectionate towards one another.
That's the meaning of family.
That's right. That's the meaning of family.
However, she eats separately.
She eats with the family...
once or twice a month.
(He's worried about his daughter.)
Do you usually talk that way?
Both of them talk that way.
Since this is my first time to have an interview,
I can't help but be awkward.
The two of them looked...
very familiar.
I thought hard about where I had seen them...
and realized that they are our future.
Seriously.
It feels that way.
That's right.
You are right.
(They look alike.)
Your family is wary and tired...
because of you. What do you think about that?
I feel bad,
but this is unfair.
My family was the part of the reason...
why I lost weight.
They called me names a lot.
- What kind of names? - "Pig, you need to lose weight."
(Pig, you need to lose weight.)
"Why are you wasting your 20s?"
- They told me that. - Who said it the most?
Mom? Dad? Siblings?
All of them did.
(All family members are the culprits.)
One time, the family gathered for the New Year's Day.
When the commercial for liposuction came on TV,
one of the relatives said, "Joo Eun needs that."
Instead of protecting me, my family laughed.
It hurts my feelings.
When I told them that I want to major...
in musical theater, my dad said,
"Since you are fat, you won't be able to be an actress."
"That would be ridiculous." His words...
shocked me.
I went on a rigorous diet to show him.
Her family was the cause.
That's right.
I was walking with my friends...
when I ran into my sister.
I didn't want to say hello to her in front of my friends,
so I think I purposely avoided her.
Did you avoid her...
because she was fat? Be honest.
To be honest, I was embarrassed by how fat she was.
(Sad)
She lost weight to pursue her dream...
of becoming an actress.
How did you feel when she told you about her dream?
I thought there was no way it would ever be possible.
No one took it seriously.
(Everyone ignored her dream because she was fat.)
Can't you support her dream now? She lost weight too.
To realize her dream,
- she should meet people... - That's right.
and have different experiences.
To avoid eating, she doesn't meet her friends.
When I meet my friends,
I want to eat something tasty.
I want to go to cafes and buffets.
Do people with average weight...
avoid meeting their friends?
- They don't. - They probably don't.
However, they were thin from the start.
- That's not true. - That's ridiculous.
People have different body types, but...
Na Young, do you avoid meeting friends...
when you are on a diet?
I meet them...
- as I work out. - That's right.
Going on a diet shouldn't limit you.
The first number of your weight is four, right?
It's close to becoming five.
- It's close to becoming five. - Are you happy?
- What? - Are you happy about that?
She wants to know how it feels to have that weight.
I am trying to gain weight.
- Are you trying to gain weight? - Seriously.
I want to be healthier.
Let me tell you this.
I am happy although I weigh over 80kg.
(I still prefer to weigh 45kg.)
What's the most fun about your current life?
Nothing is fun.
You lost weight and got the body you want.
Are you happy?
(Are you happy?)
Are you happy?
No, I am not.
Food gives me happiness.
All my desires are connected,
so I am not happy.
You become that way...
when you go on a diet. Your desires disappear.
Wouldn't I feel satisfied...
- when I weigh 45kg? - No.
That won't happen.
To maintain that weight,
you won't eat anything.
"If I eat this, I will weigh 46kg."
Then you won't eat. You'll continue to be unhappy.
Still, I am happier than I was when I was fat.
You aren't fat now.
I want her to keep going.
- Until she weighs 45kg? - Yes.
You will find that it's not that special.
- She needs to feel that. - Yes.
Promise me this. When you reach 45kg,
reserve a table at my restaurant.
Stop it already!
(Stop promoting your restaurant.)
He won't stop until the end.
What do you sell there?
(There are many tasty dishes.)
Hong Ji Min, the musical actress recently became...
the talk of the town...
because she succeeded in losing weight.
If you cut off carbohydrates,
you will have the yo-yo effect.
I don't think reaching your dream weight of 45kg matters.
I think what's important for you...
is to gain the ability to control yourself...
even if you meet friends...
- and see your family eat something. - That's right.
When you eat something, don't go, "This is the end for me."
Eat a little bit at a time.
You should try that.
- You need to practice that. - I think that's more important.
You can't eat cucumber for the rest of your life.
I am beginning to feel bad for my family.
I mistreated...
my precious family.
Will you keep going until you reach the weight of 45kg?
(Will you keep going until you reach the weight of 45kg?)
- I want to see that number once. - You should try it.
It might put you in a hospital.
(Sighing)
Let's start with Hyun Seok.
For the family, it's a worry.
(Hyun Seok thinks it's a worry.)
I think it's a worry.
Your diet might end in a disaster.
You are already pretty,
so you should be on a diet in a healthy way.
Don't get stressed out.
Even if you eat two chickens, you won't gain weight.
She will gain weight.
Since there are a lot of women in the audience,
they might relate to the story.
Press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Show us the result.
(The result)
The last digit is 8. Did the worry get over 100 votes?
138 votes.
That's a lot of votes.
"The Men She Loves".
Hello, I am Park Hae Mi, a 19-year-old who lives in Gwangju.
I am the second daughter...
from the family that has four daughthers.
My sister in 9th grade, who is the 3rd daughter,
does something that is absurd.
In Korea, monogamy is the official policy.
However, my sister wants to own...
multiple men at the same time.
"Hae Mi, I think I am in love."
- "Again?" - She is good.
"You already have seven men."
"I can't help but love him."
"This one is not only handsome, but sensible, charming,"
"and funny."
"He can sing really well, too."
Look at Min Gi.
- He is so happy. - Close your mouth!
(Here is another lovesick man.)
He is head over heels in love.
The men my sister fell in love with are...
male idol singers.
(Male idol singers)
(I knew it.)
EXO, BTS, Wanna One, Astro,
Seventeen, VIXX, Pentagon,
BTOB, and Kwon Hyun Bin.
She is a fan of nine idol groups in total.
That's a lot.
"Mom, BTOB made a comeback."
"Would you buy me their album?"
"You do this all the time. If we buy every single album,"
"we will be poor."
"Gosh, I am so upset. Why won't you buy me the album?"
"Buy me the album! Come on!"
She is so good at this.
How could you do so well when you haven't even practiced?
I almost raised my hand.
(Dong Yeob got annoyed.)
- She is so good. - She is so good.
Every time those idol groups make a comeback,
she wastes money. When my youngest sister goes...
"What is this album?"
"You brat! Do you want to die?"
"Don't touch it! Get out of my room!"
She uses swear words and violence when someone touches her albums.
This is only the tip of an iceberg.
Please save my sister, who is crazy about idol singers.
(Please save my idol-crazed sister.)
Na Young, what is your thought on the matter?
Liking 1 or 2 group is understandable,
but liking nine groups is a bit excessive.
How can you like so many groups at once?
I am one of those people...
who studied such obsessive interests.
Obsessive interests are the spices of life.
- That's what I believe. - That's a good saying.
After a year or two,
most people move on to another group.
However, this person keeps adding to her collection.
She likes multiple groups at the same time.
- This is an unusual pattern. - It is.
Let's talk to the woman who sent us the worry.
Please come on out.
(Whose worry involves a sister who is obsessed with 9 idol groups?)
All right.
(Park Hae Mi)
(Welcome.)
You said your sister likes...
nine idol groups. Does she really like...
all of them?
Yes. EXO debuted when she was 10 years old.
- Your sister was 10 years old. - Yes. It started then.
EXO, BTS, Wanna One, Astro,
- Seventeen, BTOB, - BTOB.
Pentagon and Kwon Hyun Bin.
She likes the handsome idol singers.
Yes. I am sick and tired of it.
- Is Pristin on the list? - No.
- She likes boy groups. - Boy groups.
Is 2PM on the list?
No.
(I feel bad.)
You would be more understanding as an older sister.
How bad is it that even an older sister is fed up?
Often times, more than one group are back...
- at the same time. - Yes.
When she watches the music programs,
she hides the remote.
She worries the family will change the channel.
She watches the same performance more than 10 times.
- She watches it on demand. - Because of that,
other family members can't watch TV. For each new song,
there is a new cheer.
- That's right. - To practice the new cheer,
she screams as if she is at a concert.
- In front of the TV? - Yes.
- She yells the cheer. - The cheers are different...
- for each group. - That's right.
Our fans yell our names during the intro.
- During the intro? - Yes. Ok Taec Yeon!
Nichkhun!
They stretch out his name.
- There must be three syllables. - That's right.
(The cheer is on the beat.)
(J-Hope!)
(Ji Min! V!)
(Jeon Jung Kook!)
(I just wish she wouldn't do it at home.)
I like Block B, but when a new song comes out,
I only listen to it a few times.
My sister is different. As soon as the album comes out,
she spends...
(She spends 200 to 300 dollars a month.)
She spends 200 to 300 dollars a month...
to buy albums and posters.
She collects items such as the light sticks.
Each group has...
a different light stick in a different shape.
When her favorite idol singer promotes...
cosmetic products, snacks, or ice cream,
she has to have them. She spends so much money.
She lies to our parents to get more allowance.
It would be a disaster if her favorite idol singer is...
- in a fridge commercial. - She would want a new fridge.
She would want a new fridge.
Does she get sensitive and angry...
when her younger sister touches something in her room?
When our youngest sister goes into her room,
- she swears. - As soon as she goes in?
Yes. She goes, "Don't come in, for..."
- "For fudge's sake." - "For fudge's sake."
She goes, "This is..."
She swears as soon as her sister enters.
One time, Mom opened the fridge door...
to eat ice cream.
Apparently, my sister had bought the ice cream...
her favorite idol singer promotes. On the wrapper was a picture...
- of her favorite idol singer. - She didn't want to rip it.
When my mom ripped the wrapper,
his face got ripped off.
She must have been upset.
- My sister went, - What did she say?
"I bought this to see his face. How could you rip the wrapper?"
"Go and get a new one." She yelled at Mom.
- Did she yell at her mom? - Yes. Mom got a new one,
but it didn't feature her favorite member.
- It featured another member. - My goodness.
She went, "It's not him. Go and get a new one."
She said that.
She must like the idol singers a lot.
Let's meet the sister who is obsessed with idol singers.
- Hello. - Hello.
(Who is obsessed with multiple idol groups?)
Do you understand your sister's worry?
No. Many people are more obsessed than I am.
I don't see why this is a worry.
Most people like 1 or 2 groups.
Most people like 1 group. Why do you like 9 groups?
- I like all of them. - You like all of them.
When I come home,
I relieve my stress by watching videos. At first,
I watched videos of EXO.
Then I fell for Xiumin because he is so cute...
and became obsessed with the group.
(Good choice.)
(Welcome to the fandom.)
Then I was watched videos of BTS.
V is not only cute handsome, but he's quirky too.
So I joined the fandom.
My friends listened to Seventeen, so I looked them up.
Seeing how handsome Joshua is,
I joined the fandom.
- Then came Astro. - Astro.
Cha Eun Woo.
Every member of BTOB is handsome,
so I joined the fandom.
Peniel is my favorite member.
(The list goes on.)
(She becomes less nervous and speaks with ease.)
(Her favorite groups fill the screen.)
I don't even know who is who.
(There are 70 people in total.)
This is unbelievable.
This looks like the line-up of the year-end music awards.
- Seriously. - "Music awards".
Do you like every single one of them?
This looks like the line-up of the year-end music awards.
(However,)
(Out of all those groups, I'm not included.)
We talked about why...
Chan Sung of 2PM isn't on the list.
Chan Sung is handsome. What do you think?
(I am a handsome idol singer.)
I don't know who he is.
(She doesn't know who he is.)
Really?
- I told you. It was 10 years ago. - You are right.
(I feel cold.)
(I didn't mean to hurt you.)
Does it get exhausting to keep up?
It does get exhausting.
When the groups come back at the same time...
(When the groups come back at the same time...)
- It must be hectic. - I don't have much money,
so it's hard to decide which album I should buy.
When the fans fight,
I don't know whom to side with.
- I see. - That's understandable.
(You need to dial it down.)
We need to see how obsessed she is.
Only the obsessed fans can recognize...
the minuscule differences...
in these character designs of the idol singers.
What?
- I don't know who he is. - Which group is he in?
- What's his name? - This is nonsense.
- You're not telling us his name? - That's right.
(Do you have any idea?)
- Isn't he Nichkhun? - I have no idea.
- Let's start with Na Young. - Do you know what that is?
- You don't know. - I don't know.
Does anyone in the audience know?
- No one knows. - She raised her hand.
- My goodness. - Who is he?
(Peniel of BTOB)
- Peniel? - Peniel?
Who is he?
D.O. of EXO.
D.O.?
(Is this character D.O.?)
Show us the answer.
(Correct)
- She is right. - It does look like him.
I could tell from the eyes, mouth, and hairstyle.
Really? That's ridiculous.
The eyes and what?
Okay.
Next one please.
(Who's this?)
- It's Chan Yeol. - Chan Yeol.
(Chan Yeol's character?)
- Chan Yeol. - Chan Yeol.
- What's the answer? - It is Chan Yeol.
It's correct.
Now I can see it.
You can see it?
I can see the point.
Why can't adults tell?
(Who's this?)
Oh, I think I know.
- Xiumin. - White hair.
Kai.
That's the color of Kai's hair...
for "Overdose".
That's how I know.
- Kai. - Kai.
She knows that much?
Do you know all their birthdays?
- A few. - A few?
- Start with EXO. - Xiumin's birthday is on March 26.
Chan Yeol's birthday's on November 27.
Baek Hyun's on May 6.
Hwang Min Hyun's on August 9.
Kim Tae Hyung's on December 30.
Do you know your mom's birthday?
You don't know her birthday?
I knew it when I was young.
- What? - But I don't remember it now.
How about your sister?
I don't know.
Do you even know her?
- I'm afraid she doesn't. - Probably not.
It's possible.
(You need to know when to stop.)
I do support being a fan.
Because that's how...
- they relieve stress. - That's right.
- It's sound. - It makes them flexible and happy.
The problem of her is...
that it's making her edgy,
and aggressive to her family.
I know.
I left my cellphone in her room,
so I went to pick it up.
As soon as I opened the door, she yelled at me to leave.
- As soon as you opened the door? - Yes.
She swore at me.
(Fork attack)
She threw a fork at you?
(The way she greets her sister)
"Throwing a fork."
She speaks English.
She also swore at me.
She calls me names.
She even kicks me sometimes.
(She even kicks me sometimes.)
(She feels a bit sorry.)
For Hello,
she brought...
her precious goods.
Let's see.
Her collection of goods?
There's a snack box.
A snack box.
(Before going through them...)
(We're supposed to wear gloves?)
Be careful.
Do I have to swear gloves?
- It will get dirty. - We have to.
Okay.
- Goodness. - I feel like forensics.
(For the evaluation,)
(they're getting ready.)
You cannot use a flash.
If you look here...
I'm too scared to touch it.
Now...
(One poster)
- You must be careful. - Yes.
It's a poster. You must not rip it.
(As if he's dealing with a national treasure,)
(he touches it carefully.)
You must be careful.
- It means a lot to her. - Hold it like this.
She looks nervous.
She looks very nervous.
- It's "Authentic Masterpiece" time. - EXO...
What's this?
EXO power poster.
- "Power poster." - "Power poster."
"Power of music."
- It's a good picture. - Power of music.
Where did you get it?
I was living in Jindo at the time,
- so I went to Mokpo. - You went all the way to Mokpo?
- Mokpo? - Mokpo?
- It's a good picture. - Power of music.
(It is genuine.)
- It's different. - There's one.
- Isn't it from ice cream? - Ice cream.
- Her mom bought it for her. - Ice cream.
Is this the one?
When you eat ice cream,
do you open it carefully first...
and take it out?
Or do you take this out first...
and eat off the cone?
- Eat off the cone. - Eat off the cone.
- She removes it first. - She removes it first.
I can tell. I see a drop of chocolate inside.
It means she took it out before it melted.
Yun Hwa. Let's eat it.
These don't even have their faces on them.
It's just ice cream and banana. What do you keep these?
I just put them there.
You just put them there.
It came along.
For no reason.
It came along.
- It came along. - Anyway,
if she likes them,
just let her like it.
Then it won't be a problem.
I can't leave her alone because...
she only stays in her room. She looks terrible.
When my mom tells her to come out and eat,
she says, "Just after this." And she wouldn't come out.
If my mom doesn't call her, she doesn't eat at all.
Really?
She's on summer vacation,
so she doesn't wash her hair.
She only stays in the room. She barely takes shower.
I don't even want to go near her.
At one time, she didn't wash her hair for a week.
(She didn't wash her hair for a week.)
When I tell her to eat,
she says, "Later."
Then...
I tell her to eat with the family.
She brings the cellphone she was watching,
and continues watching while eating on the table.
It must be...
- very upsetting. - Yes.
She likes to be alone.
She...
- She's upset. - She's emotional.
(She's overwhelmed.)
Does she get enough sleep?
No, she watches idol videos...
until 2, 3am.
When I tell her to turn the phone off and go to sleep,
she tells me to leave her alone.
- Out loud? - Yes.
She yells at me.
Do you not scold her? She's yelling at you.
I do.
I threw her cellphone before.
I hit her too, but nothing works.
Now that she's grown up, she doesn't listen to me.
She barely goes to school now.
- She doesn't go to school? - No.
When I wake her up for school,
she said she'll go on her own.
She goes to school after the 2nd or 3rd period.
Now, she refuses to go to school in the morning.
How about your husband?
He tells me to leave her alone.
He tells me not to stress her out.
That's what your husband says.
Her teacher has given up on her.
It's only been three months...
since I transferred. I can't get used to it.
I don't have many friends either.
How was it before you moved?
I was bullied before we moved.
She was bullied.
(It turns out she was hurt.)
- She was hurt in the past. - Yes.
When I go to school, I'm alone.
She's hurt.
(She bursts into tears.)
Everyone avoids me.
In PE class, they show that they don't...
want me in their team.
They just don't like me.
Now we understand...
why her husband told her to leave her alone.
I knew her situation.
I went into her room to talk, and I found her crying.
I asked her why she was crying.
She yelled at me to leave.
She won't talk to me about it.
It's frustrating.
Can I ask why you were crying?
I was already exhausted from school,
but my mom nags at me...
and tells me to study when I'm not good at it.
So I was crying alone in my room,
and she came in asking me. I was crying, and it annoyed me.
You never...
had a chance to talk about your feelings, did you?
No.
I was aware of it.
When we were in Jindo, there weren't many people,
so I told her to be friendly to other kids.
You didn't know how much pain she was in, did you?
No.
(I'm worried.)
I'm staying in Mokpo alone...
- for university. - I see.
It's been 3, 4 years since I lived alone.
I didn't know how serious her situation was.
She's always been very shy since she was young.
When the whole family gathers for holiday,
she'd be on her phone alone.
When I visit home, she says hi,
then she doesn't say anything until I leave.
Since there are many children,
my parents can't take care of each of us.
I should've taken care of her as her sister,
but I couldn't do it.
My sister has been hurt a lot.
(The wounds grew bigger.)
Grab her hand.
I couldn't do anything for her when she was hurting.
I should've listened to her...
- as she said. - Right.
Every time she said it, no one cared or listened.
I'm sure she couldn't settle down and suffered alone.
- You feel sorry. - Yes.
It's in those times you feel distressed and lonely,
it's comforting to listen to your favorite singers' songs.
- That's right. - It gives you strength.
As a matter of fact, she's in ninth grade.
I promised to buy her a ticket for EXO's concert...
as her graduation gift.
- It's hard to get a concert ticket. - She was so excited.
She rarely talks to me,
but she asked me if I still remembered my promise...
whenever she saw me. Considering her behaviors like this,
I think the members of our family should respect her interest.
When I was a child,
my family didn't get along very well with each other.
I think that's why I started reading comic books.
I enjoyed reading comic books and drawing cartoons.
One day, my mom said, "You're reading a comic book."
"I used to like comic books and drawing cartoons."
And she drew a cartoon for me.
I still remember her drawing.
I think that was what I had always wanted to hear from my mom.
Right.
Do you know why your daughter like those idol singers...
and what she likes about them?
I don't know.
(Disappointed)
How about you tell your mom...
about your favorite idol singer or group?
I like Seung Kwan of Seventeen.
- Seung Kwan? - Seventeen.
Seung Kwan sings really well.
Ma'am, she just told you that she likes Seung Kwang.
Seung Kwang can be the key to her heart.
- Okay. - It's Seung Kwan, not Seung Kwang.
(It's Seung Kwan, not Seung Kwang.)
It's not "Kwang" as in Korean cards.
(Everything was perfect except for that.)
(At that moment...)
He said that Seung Kwan sings very well.
(Her mom mustered up courage.)
Which song would you recommend to me?
(She speaks awkwardly.)
"Very Nice".
(Chuckling)
- It's not Seventeen's song. - She's cute.
I'd like to recommend you...
Chen and Dynamic Duo's collaboration song,
"Nosedive".
Do you know what he likes?
(She asks another question.)
I don't know that.
- You can learn from now on. - They can do it together.
You should know that much if you're his fan.
- Her mom must be embarrassed. - Right.
I'd like to say something from a fan's perspective.
She's very depressed and sensitive because of fan activities.
That's right.
It's because she's a fan of too many singers.
- That's the problem. - My gosh.
That's so complicated.
You know the pleasure you get from focusing on one thing...
and get to know better about it, right?
Since she likes too many stars, it exhausts her.
- She can't focus on one of them. - It makes her sensitive.
It may seem that her problem is to like...
too many singers at the same time,
but I can feel that she's in pain.
- And that breaks my heart. - That's right.
I know this because I went to school in a remote area too.
When someone hates me, it feels like everyone in school hates me.
- It's hard to get along with kids. - It's understandable.
And I think her third daughter...
is a bit more fragile than others. She's like glass.
The same goes for me.
I don't look that way, right?
- But actually... - You feel like bulletproof glass.
(I feel better thanks to you.)
How do you feel now? Think this is a chance...
to go to school more often even though it'll be hard.
Try to be more confident when you go out...
- and be stronger not to get hurt. - Right.
Also, try to muster up courage to approach other people.
Think that you train to become stronger at school.
I want you to come out to the living room,
talk to your family more often,
and refrain yourself from fan activities.
Do you think it's a worry or not?
Since she doesn't seem happy at all despite her fan activities,
I think it's a worry.
- I think it's a worry. - I see.
- I think it's a worry. - Yes.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Time's up. - Stop.
Say something to your sister and the other family members.
"My sister."
My sister, I promise I'll do less fan activities...
talk to my family more often,
- and go to school every day. - You should.
So stop worrying about me.
- Good. - How nice.
- Say something to your mom too. - To your mom.
Mom, I love you.
That's the best thing to hear.
(Mom, I love you.)
- That's the best thing to hear. - Nice.
- Ma'am. - She's crying.
Ma'am, try not to worry because your third daughter...
is peculiar. Her peculiarity...
- can change the world. - Right.
- Please show us the result. - She's crying.
"The Men She Loves". She must've been worried so much.
- Is it over 100? - I'm glad she came on the show.
Out of 200 people, how many voted for "The Men She Loves"?
(How many people can relate to her affection for idol stars?)
135? 145?
135.
Third daughter, give your mom a hug.
- She can't stop crying. - Give her a hug.
(Hugging)
Those who switched the channel just now...
might think your dad caused her grief.
(Did her husband cause her grief?)
Her husband is not even here...
- but is spoken ill of. - Exactly.
"Let Me Introduce My Daughter" is this week's winner.
Congratulations. The winner will receive a cash prize.
Until the day we are all worry-free.
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you. - Thank you.
("Woo Woo" by DIA)